Pay-What-You-Can Rope Jam

ABOUT

Rope Jams are spaces where you can come and practice rope tying in a peer-to-peer based setting. The first hour will be guided tuition and the remaining time will be open to practice whatever you like. Singles and couples welcome! 

In this session we will be chatting about self-care and consent in ropes. Astrid will be demoing a cute lil booty tie that can be self-tied or partner tied. 

Additional information

• This jam is donation-based: literally give us what you can afford. If you would like to attend but can’t afford to do so, grab a free ticket. 
• We have limited treated rope from Sudo Jute for sale (variable prices: R350 - R450 per 8m hank), as well as rope balm (R150), stainless steel suspension rings (R800) and safety shears (R50).
• This is our last jam in the original Embodiment space, come and say goodbye to her with us <3 

Rules and Ethos 

Read our ethos here: desirelinesbondage.com/space

About your educator

Astrid (@desirelinesbondage) has been co-creating spaces for learning the ropes in Cape Town since 2016. She is a technically rigorous rope top who brings a wholesome, empathic flavour to her teaching. In 2021, she opened Embodiment Rope Space as a safe(r) venue for interested souls to explore the medium of rope.

FAQ

What is Shibari/Kinbaku/Bondage? 

The art of binding the body of a consenting adult. 

Is rope always sexual?

It is important to recognise and appreciate the erotic roots of bondage, and honour and respect that it is an erotic practice. That said, it does have benefits and practitioners outside of the sexual paradigm. For some, it is about pushing their bodies not unlike engaging in strenuous exercise or extreme sports. For some it is a way to reclaim their agency after trauma. For some it is a way to experience connection with others without the scripts and expectations associated with genital contact. As long as what you are doing is consensual and intentional, we consider it healthy and valid.

What should I wear?

This is a friendly learning environment, not a sexual one, so crotches are to remain covered. Other than that, you are free to wear whatever you like. We find that it is easier to tie with minimal clothing or clothing that you can move in easily (leggings, shorts, etc).